When we bring a child into the world we have so many ideas, plans, and expectations. Some of which are well-planned researched ideas, others not so much. How many of those expectations are expectations you have for yourself and who you want to be?

 Many parents unintentionally find their children to be an extension of themselves, a mini me. They do everything they can to create the person who is exactly who they wish themselves to be. 

The reality is that your child is a beautiful unique person born with their own temperament and quickly creating their own ideas about what they like and who they are. We as parents have the responsibility to allow them to be who they are and accept them as that. This allows them to truly reach their full potential.

 This does not mean you let them do whatever they want. It is your responsibility to establish boundaries and teach them to respect themselves, others, and their environment. All while letting them be who they want to be. Talking with them, not at them. Listening to their ideas and opinions and encouraging them to make the best choices for them!

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